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spouse said…. “We were such a good and loving invention. An airplane
made from a man and wife. Wings and everything. We hovered a little
above the earth. We even flew a little.” Marriage at Heartchoice
exists to assist you in resolving issues/enhancing your relationship." Quotable Quote... QUESTION:I have been married for 6.5 years to a man who is very dependable (but boring), has only my happiness to make him happy, has no outside friends, and has given me two wonderful daughters. A dream man almost. But, I am being suffocated, I do not love him as a husband, but love him as a friend. Our social life is nil, he does not go out ever on his own, neither do I as we live in the country, (I work from home), he will not even go to bed on his own before me! We have very little sex life (twice a year and it is unsatisfactory) - he does not interest me. It would be very easy to stay together, but is that fair to him or me - could we both achieve a greater level of happiness and for me regain my vitality, if we were separated. ANSWER: It is a common plight to stay in a dull marriage or to take a chance on the unknown. Only you can decide. However, only leave your husband if you feel you can survive living alone...since you may not land in a new relationship. Some who left wished they could get back and could not. Another alternative is to see a marriage counselor together to discover ways to enrich your relationship...take vacations to places of mutual interest, read erotic literature together, consider an X rated video. Do something!
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