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" A
spouse said…. “We were such a good and loving invention. An airplane made from a man and
wife. Wings and everything. We hovered a little above the
earth. We even flew a little.” Marriage at Heartchoice exists to assist you in resolving issues/enhancing
your relationship."
Quotable Quote...
You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to. Henny Youngman
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"LEAVE A DULL MARRIAGE?"
QUESTION:I have been married for 6.5 years to a man who is very dependable
(but boring), has only my happiness to make him happy, has no outside friends,
and has given me two wonderful daughters. A dream man almost. But, I am being
suffocated, I do not love him as a husband, but love him as a friend.
Our social life is
nil, he does not go out ever on his own, neither do I as we live in the country,
(I work from home), he will not even go to bed on his own before me! We have
very little sex life (twice a year and it is unsatisfactory) - he does not
interest me. It would be very easy to stay together, but is that fair to him or
me - could we both achieve a greater level of happiness and for me regain my
vitality, if we were separated.
ANSWER: It is a common plight
to stay in a dull marriage or to take a chance on the unknown. Only you can
decide. However, only leave your husband if you feel you can survive living
alone...since you may not land in a new relationship. Some who left wished they
could get back and could not.
Another alternative is to see a
marriage counselor together to discover ways to enrich your relationship...take
vacations to places of mutual interest, read erotic literature together,
consider an X rated video. Do something!
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