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"Infidelity"

QUESTION: My spouse can't let go of an old girl friend.  We've been married nine years but he still sees/talks to her. What should I do?

ANSWER:  People are capable of multiple loves/sexual relationships....even you are capable of this....but our society does not allow it.   You have three options.

1.  Do nothing, you will stay torn up and afraid every time he leaves the house, picks up the phone. 2.  Let him see the other person and get the pressure off him...tell him "this is not easy for me but I know you love me too" Polyamory is multiple loves.  See http://www.polyamorysociety.org/  I know people involved in this and it works for them. 3.  If you can't buy into polyamory and can't look the other way, tell him he needs to go till he makes up his mind..that you just need a husband who is faithful to you.  Put the ball in his court.

    

   

 

 

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