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before marriage, half shut afterwards." At Right Mate we offer information,
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"Infidelity"
QUESTION: My spouse can't let go of an old girl
friend. We've been married nine years but he still sees/talks to her. What should I
do?
ANSWER: People are
capable of multiple loves/sexual relationships....even you are capable of
this....but our society does not allow it. You have three options.
1. Do
nothing, you will stay torn up and afraid every time he leaves the house, picks
up the phone.
2. Let
him see the other person and get the pressure off him...tell him "this is
not easy for me but I know you love me too" Polyamory is multiple loves.
See http://www.polyamorysociety.org/
I know people involved in this and it works for them.
3. If
you can't buy into polyamory and can't look the other way, tell him he needs to
go till he makes up his mind..that you just need a husband who is faithful to
you. Put the ball in his court.
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