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Hooking up/having sex the first night, dooms your relationship.
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There are some things better and some things worse, but there's nothing exactly like
it is an old adage. And there is
really nothing like it when there is INTIMACY. Welcome to the Intimacy section at Heartchoice. Look around and
enjoy. "
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"LEAVE A DULL MARRIAGE?"
QUESTION:I have been married for 6.5 years to a man who is very dependable
(but boring), has only my happiness to make him happy, has no outside friends,
and has given me two wonderful daughters. A dream man almost. But, I am being
suffocated, I do not love him as a husband, but love him as a friend.
Our social life is
nil, he does not go out ever on his own, neither do I as we live in the country,
(I work from home), he will not even go to bed on his own before me! We have
very little sex life (twice a year and it is unsatisfactory) - he does not
interest me. It would be very easy to stay together, but is that fair to him or
me - could we both achieve a greater level of happiness and for me regain my
vitality, if we were separated.
ANSWER: It is a common plight
to stay in a dull marriage or to take a chance on the unknown. Only you can
decide. However, only leave your husband if you feel you can survive living
alone...since you may not land in a new relationship. Some who left wished they
could get back and could not.
Another alternative is to see a
marriage counselor together to discover ways to enrich your relationship...take
vacations to places of mutual interest, read erotic literature together,
consider an X rated video. Do something!
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