What Women Want Men to Know about Sex
- • Women tend to like a loving, gentle, patient, tender, and understanding partner. Rough sexual play can hurt and be a turnoff.
- • It does not impress women to hear about other women in the man’s past.
- • If men knew what it is like to be pregnant, they would not be so apathetic about birth control.
- • Most women want more caressing, gentleness, kissing, and talking before and after intercourse.
- • Some women are sexually attracted to other women, not to men.
- • Sometimes the woman wants sex even if the man does not. Sometimes she wants to be aggressive without being made to feel that she shouldn’t be.
- • Intercourse can be enjoyable without orgasm.
- • Many women do not have an orgasm from penetration only; they need direct stimulation of their clitoris by their partner’s tongue or finger.
- • Men should be interested in fulfilling their partner’s sexual needs.
- • Most women prefer to have sex in a monogamous love relationship.
- • When a woman says “no,” she means it.
- • Women do not want men to expect sex every time they are alone with their partner.
- • Many women enjoy sex in the morning, not just at night.
- • Sex is not everything.
- • Women need to be lubricated before penetration.
- • Men should know more about menstruation.
- • Many women are no more inhibited about sex than men are.
- • Women do not like men to roll over, go to sleep, or leave right after orgasm.
- • Intercourse is more of a love relationship than a sex act for some women.
- • The woman should not always be expected to supply a method of contraception. It is also the man’s responsibility.
- • Men should always have a condom with them and initiate putting it on.
